safety and risk

if now we're doing this, what do you expect to happen later on? where would we go?

i found it very comfortable to have this thing around, but i'm still not sure on what's ahead. i feel like i am now in a safe territory where i have everything under control.

you know what's bad with feeling safe?

you won't feel like taking another risk, letting the safety go away. it would be difficult for you to try new things, and got stuck with your current condition where you are absolutely safe and sound.

that's not how great people with great achievements go on with their life. they start from the bottom, struggle their way to be individually better than others, then they begin to start being different with trying things in a different way. but they fail. and they learn from their mistakes, struggle harder like hell while the embarassment and sadness from the former mistake keeps haunting. after that... you see, in time, they shine their way to the top. they succeed.

let's take risks! but remember : you are responsible for your own actions. no blaming people, no blaming God, hell, nothing to blame other than yourself. and do not complain too much. you just push people away because of those non-stop grumbling and whining.